Decisions
Did
you ever hear the old joke about decision making? It goes like this: “Do you
have a problem making a decision?” The answer, “Well, yes and no.” Almost
unknowingly, we make lots of decisions every day. Most are mundane and
repetitive but none the less decisions. Every once in a while, a big decision
come along; buying a car or where to go for vacation. It’s the really big ones
that test our ability to make good decisions: who to marry, a job change or
even a geographic move.
The
best way I know to make good decisions is by learning from the bad ones. Thankfully,
those poor choices that I have had to live with were not life altering. It only
takes a lemon car purchase to make me a lot smarter in shopping for the next
one. Gathering the facts and asking for counsel are essential to making good
decisions.
Here’s
a quote that recently appeared on my Facebook page: “Be decisive. Right or
wrong make a decision. The road of life is paved with flat squirrels who
couldn’t make a decision.” Hopefully the unknown author wasn’t suffering from
indecision himself.
Over
the years I have used three questions in making major decisions. First, is this
a good opportunity? Two, does it violate the Scriptures or my conscience?
Third, do I have peace in doing it? When I have the answer to those questions, I
can confidently make a good decision.
Decision
making is a human endeavor. Animals function by instinct. God created us with a
mind and a will to make choices. Hopefully as we mature our ability to make quality
decisions will enhance our lives. I like these words of Jesus, “Say just a
simple ‘Yes, I will’ or ‘No, I won’t.’ Your word is enough.”
Now
that’s a good decision.
