Choices
When I get to heaven, the first question I am going to ask
God is: “What did you have in mind when you created me with the ability to
choose?” I know that there is a long list of questions to ask him but this one
really bugs me. I am aware of the philosophical and theological answers but I
want to hear it from him!
I have made my share of bad choices that led to painful
consequences. Long before I was conscious of the connection between choice and
consequence, I thought that it didn’t matter what I chose as long as it felt
good and didn’t get me in trouble. It was confusing to me that people made
choices that didn’t seem to make sense. How come people make such dumb choices?
Now that I am the parent of adult children, I have the
luxury of looking back on the choices I made in raising my kids. Although there
are some things I would change if I could, I do remember repeating this mantra,
“In order to learn how to make good choices, you are going to have to make some
bad ones and walk out the consequences.” I can still see my kids looking at me
like I had two heads.
We live in a culture that majors in personal freedom and
largely ignores consequences. Personal responsibility seems to be a thing of
the past. When I read the newspaper or listen to the new on TV, I am
continually bombarded with the blame game for the consequences of bad choices.
Social pressure and correctness are leading us down the path to
self-destruction. Who is going to stand up and say that when you make bad
choices you are going to reap bad consequences?
The Bible is full of people who, in spite of knowing better,
chose to walk away from God and live their dream. Adam and Eve were the first
ones and it has been down hill since then. You would think that the sheer pain
of consequences would wake us up to the reality that better choices make for a
better life. The Lord says, “I place before you Life and Death, Blessing and
Curse. Choose life so that you and your children will live.”
Now that’s a good choice.