Monday, May 25, 2020

Sushi


Sushi

When it comes to food, my mother taught me never to eat anything that I couldn’t recognize. Because of this admonition, I endeavor to eat only that which I can identify. This works well because my culinary tastes follow along the line of meat and potatoes, some vegetables and lots of sweets. Mother also said, “skip the meal and have dessert.”

When I travelled a lot, I was exposed to a wide variety of questionable food. Sitting around a campfire in the African bush, I was treated to food that tasted like chicken but could have been something else. In Mexico, dining at a church meal, I ate a marinated dish of goat’s head. Mother would never approve.

My first experience with sushi was in Portland with my oldest son and family. Sitting in a restaurant at a table next to a conveyor belt featuring an endless parade of fish dishes, I was encouraged to take one. When I asked what fish it was, they told me to eat it, I would like it. I could hear mother whispering “Don’t! You won’t like it.”

This past week was Judy’s birthday. I suggested a meal of burgers, hot dogs and potato salad: all recognizable food. Reading her body language, I then suggested she choose. Yep, she chose sushi. What a treat: all kinds of raw fish in a rainbow of color, wrapped in white rice with sides of sliced ginger root and wasabis. A meal to die for. All I could think of mom’s admonition. I ate but made sure whatever it was got thoroughly soaked in soy sauce and washed down with wine.

All was not lost. Knowing Judy also had a sweet tooth,  I drove to Costco earlier in the day and came home with a delicious cheesecake. Lighting a candle, singing Happy Birthday and savoring the taste. I finally ate something I could recognize. If only we had started with dessert!

Monday, May 18, 2020

Fiftieth


Fiftieth

This week marks my fiftieth year of pastoral ministry. It doesn’t seem that long ago that I laid prostrate on the chancel floor of Cathedral in St. Paul with my classmates. After eight years of seminary training, I was about to be released for an adventure of a lifetime. Little did I realize where it would lead.

Looking back often affords 20-20 vision. My training didn’t adequately prepare me for where the Lord would take me. At times the journey was frightening. Walking away from all that I knew to venture into unknown territory was both invigorating and challenging. How I got this far can only be attributed to the grace of God.

 John Donne, an Anglican preacher and poet, several centuries ago penned the words “no man is an island.” A tangible expression of God’s grace are people who journeyed with me on the way. In anticipation of this ministry milestone I compiled a list of women and men who have contributed to my longevity. Some have gone on to be with the Lord while others have ventured off into other pursuits. Nonetheless all have contributed and for that I am most grateful.

There is a treasure of memories that now bring peace to the reality that there is more life behind me than ahead. Morbidity is not my companion but thankfulness for a life well lived is. That which lies ahead can only be an added blessing.

Two Scriptures come to mind as I close; both from the Book of Proverbs.

“We plan the way we want to live, but only God makes us able to live it.”

“Trust in the Lord completely, and do not rely on your own opinions. With all your heart rely on him to guide you, and he will lead you in every decision you make.”

Amen

Monday, May 11, 2020

No Doubt


 No Doubt

There is something you need to know about me. I lean towards being skeptical about some things. Easy answers, political promises, religious heavy breathing and snake oil salesmen. I must have inherited this from my father who had a sixth sense that could smell fake from a distance. I am a proponent of the “I am from  Missouri and you gotta show me.” Not a bad attribute for a pastor.

That doesn’t mean that I am not a believer. But my belief system is of a more organic nature. I like to probe and find out what lies behind things. When someone tells me that they are a “true believer” I tend to let my doubting side take the lead before I swallow hook, line and sinker.

I like the Bible story of Thomas, who after the death and resurrection of Jesus, was absent when Jesus appeared to the other disciples. Thomas wasn’t willing to take their word for it declaring that he would believe if he could see for himself. That happened the following week and Thomas believed. Unfortunately, Thomas gets a bad rap because he doubted. I think he was curious  and wanted to see with his own eyes.

Doubting is a necessary step to believing just as asking is an important step to receiving. For some strange reason, questioning what one believes is often seen as weakness. I find questioning refreshing. How can I grow if my mind and heart are in gridlock? There is nothing to fear by inquiring into that which I believe. Being teachable is at the heart of being a disciple of Jesus.

It is Jesus who reminds us “And so I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened for you.”

No doubt this is true!






Monday, May 4, 2020

New Normal


New Normal

It was King Solomon who said, “there is nothing new under the sun.” That doesn’t take into account the new things I am experiencing. I haven’t been grounded since I was a teenager. Nor have I been called old so often by those who are concerned for my well-being. Most of my interacting with people is via texting, FaceTime or Zoom. I can’t shake hands, hug or kiss family and friends because of fear that I might be a Petri dish of disease.

Tell me there is nothing new under the sun. I grew up believing that people who wore masks in public were bent on doing me harm or eager to rob a bank. Now if you don’t wear one in public, you are shunned like you had the plague. I can’t take Daisy for a walk and stop to say hello to fellow travelers unless I keep the six feet social distance. Anybody care that it’s hard to hear what some else is saying at that distance even with hearing aids?

Enough of what’s wrong with the world. There is a new normal in our house. After almost twenty years of faithful service, our Sears Kenmore washer and dryer found a new home with our son. We purchased a Samsung set from Costco. Let me tell you, they are a thing of beauty. A lot of technical progress in twenty years. They are bold white with smoke glass doors and flashing blue lights when you hit the start button. There are soft musical tones when the cycle is finished instead of that awful buzzer. The washer tub is big enough to take a bath in. There is an option to operate them with bluetooth but that didn’t seem right. I am expecting great things to come from the laundry room.

On a more serious note this will be the new normal: “God has moved into the neighborhood, making his home with men and women! They’re his people, he’s their God. He’ll wipe every tear from their eyes. Death is gone for good, tears gone, dying gone, pain gone…Look! I am making everything new.”