Grandpa Clohessy
This past St. Patrick’s Day brought to mind my Irish
heritage. It is interesting that in our pluralistic society the only day
everybody is of one nationality is on the 17th of March. I wonder
what our world would look like if we had that commonality the rest of the year.
I remember my grandfather, Thomas Clohessy, saying with some
distain that on St. Patrick’s Day everybody is Irish. Being a native born
Irishman he steadily refused to wear the green on this day; instead he wore
orange. An Irishman wearing orange mean only one thing: you were Protestant not
Catholic. The ironic thing was my grandfather was Catholic!
I don’t remember a whole lot about my grandfather but I do
remember he was short in stature and always smelled of Old Spice and tobacco.
He was a Passenger Agent for the Santa Fe Railroad. He had a quick temper and
was fond of alcohol. He married a Polish lady who immigrated as a child. If you
know anything about nationalities, you recognize that their marriage was a
volatile mix.
His daughter, my mother, often told the story of the time my
grandfather got on the streetcar heading home after work and a visit to the
bar. For some reason he got in an argument with a gentleman. My grandfather
hauled off and slugged the man giving him a black eye. As it turned out that
gentleman was the Episcopal Bishop!
Today not much stock is given to our roots. We are all
Americans even though we all come from immigrants. More than looks are passed
down from generation to generation. Family traditions, personal temperaments
and worldviews make up a family tree. It is the diversity of family roots that
gives flavor and color to the melting pot of our nation.
I don’t smoke anymore but every once in awhile I put on a
splash of Old Spice After Shave to remind myself that I have more in common
with Grandpa Clohessy than just looks.
Erin Go Bragh
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